So, what is wrong with you?
Why do you not believe in yourself?
What is your excuse this time?
Why is there even an excuse?
I look at you, and I am seeing more than a million possibilities that you are making it. I did not say you will make it because it has gone beyond that. You are in progress, but the only limitation I see here is your mindset.
I had a conversation with a female friend. She was narrating the problems another friend of ours was going through because of her husband. I had to stop her when she said our collective friend has a problem. I don't think she has a problem. I think her husband is the one with the situation. Soon, she would have accumulated enough knowledge about her situation, and she will start asking questions which is what she is doing now. Soon she will understand the issues at hand, and she will discover she's being abused. At this point, some people will tell you that they know their rights. Knowledge is power. The moment she finds who she is, she will act. The moment she understands she is being abused and the husband is in real trouble. I have seen this same drama play a million times in different scenarios.
The single most significant key to your behaviour is your self-esteem. It's impossible to consistently behave in a manner inconsistent with how you see yourself. You can positively do very few things if you feel negative about yourself. No factor is more critical in your psychological development and motivation than the value judgments you make about yourself. Every aspect of your life is impacted by the way you see yourself. If you believe you are worthless, then you won't add value to yourself. No factor is more critical in your psychological development and motivation than the value judgments you make about yourself. You will be unable to out-perform your self-image.
Self-esteem, also known as self-worth and self-respect, is the opinion you have about yourself. It is magical because the way you share your worthiness with others is through your attitude, behaviour, character, and mannerism. In psychology, your self-esteem is used to describe your sense of self-worth or personal value. In other words, it is how much you like yourself. Your self-esteem involves various beliefs about yourself, such as how you look, how you feel and how you gauge your personal successes or failures.
If you have healthy self-esteem, you are likely to feel optimistic about your abilities and have a sunnier approach to life, in general. Whereas if you have low self-esteem, studies have linked poor self-image with various problems that can affect everything from the way you view your life, your career, your endeavours, and how you conduct your relationships. If you feel negative about yourself or your life to the extent that it's impacting your ability to function, I recommend speaking to your GP or considering talking therapy.
Self-esteem is the degree to which you feel confident, valuable, and worthy of respect. It exists on a continuum from high to low. Where a person's self-esteem falls on this spectrum can influence one's overall well-being. People with high self-esteem often feel good about themselves and their progress through life. People with low self-esteem often feel shame and self-doubt. They often spend lots of time criticising themselves. Low self-esteem is a symptom of several mental health conditions, such as anxiety and depression. People with low self-esteem are likely to have a downgrading opinion of themselves.
People will always value you to the extent you love yourself. Stop making every issue about them. You were the one that placed the price tag on your forehead, and they saw the value you gave yourself; hence they devalued you. They did not disvalue you because you are not valuable, but they did because you informed them you are not valuable. If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise the price. If you want to become the person you have the potential to be, you must believe you can.
The moment you limit what you will do, you have eventually limited what you can do. One of the reasons you have low self-esteem is because you have some limiting beliefs. You must move beyond your limiting beliefs if your desire is to be successful in life. If you don't believe you can accomplish anything, then you won't. Prayer cannot change this fact. You need to renew your mind and change the thoughts in your mind for prayer to influence your desires. Low self-esteem can contribute to mental health concerns. Low self-esteem has long-term damaging effects.
The mirror effect reflects oneself through the gaze of others. It is used in education as a metacognition tool and as a vector of knowledge. The mirror effect can be obtained directly from another person through observation, listening to his or her comments, or watching a video. Mirroring is the behaviours in which one person unconsciously imitates the gesture, speech pattern, or attitude. The ability to mimic another person's actions allows the infant to establish a sense of empathy and thus begin to understand another person's emotions.
The Law of the Mirror proposes that the origin of our negative feelings towards another person is within our "heart" and not in the other person. What this law teaches us is that emotions are born from within ourselves. Anger is usually born towards oneself and not towards the other person.
The mirror effect is about the value you see in yourself to add value to yourself. The general attitude about life is the fact that people invest in what is valuable. When last did you invest in yourself? You are not investing in yourself because you have not seen the value in yourself. How can you add value to others if you don't have value or have not added value to yourself? In life, you cannot give to others what you don't have.
In life, you tend to get whatever you are willing to tolerate. If you allow others to disrespect you and trip all over you, you will be disrespected in magnitude more than you anticipate. If you accept abuse, you will be abused. If you think it is OK to be overworked and underpaid, then your prayers will be answered. If you want to feel valued, you must add value to others. Learn to live a valued centred life.
Contributing to other people and adding value to their lives is the tangible means to gain another person's buy-in, and through this means you will get others to believe in you. For apparent reasons, this is important in many facets of life: leadership, friendships, relationships, connecting with new people, and especially with your family. If you want people to respect and regard you, then you must add value to their lives—otherwise, you're just dead weight.
Why have you refused to reach your potential? Am I wrong to say it is because you do not believe in yourself? I am right. Yes, I think I am. You have low self-esteem.
60355 comments
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 16:15
posted by fear of god
I intended to send you this very small note to be able to say thanks as before on the remarkable views you have featured on this page. This is simply open-handed of people like you to allow freely just what many individuals would've sold for an electronic book in making some money for their own end, mostly considering that you could have tried it if you wanted. These concepts as well worked as the easy way to be certain that other people online have the same zeal just as my personal own to see a good deal more with regards to this matter. I am certain there are a lot more pleasurable periods ahead for individuals that start reading your site.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 16:15
posted by gap yeezy
I not to mention my friends happened to be looking at the great ideas found on your web site and then suddenly came up with a terrible feeling I never thanked you for those secrets. All of the young men were consequently happy to see all of them and have now honestly been enjoying these things. Appreciate your genuinely considerably accommodating and also for deciding on this sort of incredibly good information most people are really needing to discover. Our honest regret for not expressing gratitude to sooner.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 16:14
posted by nike sb
I enjoy you because of your entire efforts on this web page. My mum takes pleasure in participating in investigation and it's really obvious why. We all notice all regarding the dynamic medium you give insightful techniques via your website and in addition recommend participation from the others on the issue plus my child is in fact being taught a whole lot. Take pleasure in the remaining portion of the new year. Your performing a pretty cool job.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 16:14
posted by bape
Thanks so much for giving everyone an extremely pleasant possiblity to read in detail from this blog. It's usually very great and as well , stuffed with a great time for me and my office colleagues to search your web site nearly thrice in 7 days to study the newest guidance you will have. Not to mention, we are certainly satisfied concerning the astonishing things you give. Certain 3 points in this posting are definitely the finest we've had.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 16:14
posted by supreme new york
Thanks a lot for providing individuals with an extraordinarily memorable possiblity to check tips from this blog. It really is very beneficial plus stuffed with a good time for me personally and my office mates to search your site at least three times in one week to find out the new issues you have got. And definitely, we are certainly contented with all the unbelievable methods served by you. Certain 1 points in this post are without a doubt the most impressive I've ever had.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 16:14
posted by supreme outlet
I want to convey my admiration for your generosity giving support to men and women who have the need for help on the question. Your special dedication to getting the message throughout became quite productive and has in most cases made people much like me to get to their goals. Your new invaluable tips and hints indicates a whole lot a person like me and a whole lot more to my mates. Many thanks; from all of us.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 16:14
posted by supreme
I precisely desired to thank you so much yet again. I do not know the things I would have followed without the tips revealed by you concerning that theme. It seemed to be an absolute difficult dilemma in my opinion, however , encountering a specialized way you resolved it made me to jump over gladness. I will be happier for your support and in addition believe you recognize what a great job you have been putting in educating many people through the use of your web site. I'm certain you've never met all of us.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 14:59
posted by goyard bag
Thanks for your entire effort on this web site. Debby takes pleasure in participating in research and it's really easy to understand why. Many of us learn all about the lively manner you present both useful and interesting tactics on your website and therefore foster participation from visitors on the article and my child has always been starting to learn a whole lot. Take advantage of the remaining portion of the new year. You are always performing a terrific job.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 14:59
posted by palm angels hoodie
I simply needed to thank you very much once again. I do not know the things I would've carried out in the absence of the type of tips documented by you concerning such industry. Previously it was a very frightful issue for me personally, nevertheless taking note of a expert technique you processed the issue forced me to jump with happiness. I am happier for your advice and even sincerely hope you find out what a powerful job you have been providing training the rest all through your site. More than likely you have never met all of us.
-
Comment Link
Sunday, 12 November 2023 14:59
posted by nike sb
I enjoy you because of your own effort on this website. My daughter takes pleasure in going through investigations and it's easy to see why. A number of us notice all regarding the powerful way you make very helpful tips and tricks by means of the web site and even welcome response from some other people on this article while our favorite child is always becoming educated so much. Enjoy the remaining portion of the year. You're carrying out a fabulous job.