Working as a consultant means changing roles, jobs, positions, towns, and cities and meeting different managers. Some nice and others nasty. It is a change I have learned to contend with in life, and this has helped me handle other areas in my life to be resilient and never to bulge or give up.
I have seen people get anxious for fear of change because they cannot handle change. My friend Catherine stayed in the same position for over seven years until I discussed the topic. I asked if her buttocks had been glued to the same chair. She was pissed off. She got vexed with me and kept her distance for three days. She then rang my line and told me I was correct. It was in 2006.
She explained that she has not done interviews for more than eight years and is scared of change. She is comfortable where she is even though she complained about the salary. She made excuses why she was not willing to move on. I explained that within three years, I had moved to five different positions in the same organisation. We had to list out all the reasons she was scared, and I created a plan on how she could overcome her fears.
Change is an event that occurs when something passes from one state or phase to another. Change is a relational difference between states, especially between states before and after some event. Change is the action of changing something. Change is the result of alteration or modification. It is the balance of money received when the amount you tender is greater than the amount due—all these definitions. I want to go with the relational difference between states as these suits our conversation more.
Change is a constant in life. You cannot avoid change because without change; there is no growth. Change allows one to move forward in life and experience new and exciting things. Life can become stagnant when you don't actively work on evolving yourself. Learning new skills or working on your inner self can bring about changes you never knew were possible. Change can help unlock opportunities you didn't know were available to you.
The concept of change can be unsettling. Many of us would prefer to shy away from changes, whether big or small. However, change is an integral part of your development journey and, most importantly, should be embraced. Change touches all aspects of life but embracing change in your career can contribute enormously toward positive personal development. Change leads to opportunity and experiences.
The better you apply change management, the more likely you will meet your life's objective. You cannot avoid change. The moment you start resisting change, the more challenging your life becomes. You are surrounded by change continually, so it is something you cannot do without. It has a dramatic impact on life. There is no way you can avoid change. You need to embrace it and make your life pleasurable. When you avoid change, it won't be long because it will find you and force you to reconsider how to live your life.
"Your life does not get better by chance; it gets better by change." — Jim Rohn
Change can come to your life through varying means. It could be through promotion or crisis. It could be because of a choice you made. No matter how the change comes, it would help if you learned how to adapt to the change so your life is not disrupted. You can experience change by chance. No matter how the change comes, you are still forced to make a choice.
When you are prepared for change, you have more control over how to react to the change you are dealing with. When you are not ready for a change like Catherine, it is another story altogether and can cause anxiety, panic, and mental disorder. It would help if you prepared for unexpected changes to live your life as an activator of change and not a reactionary.
"Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like." — Lao Tzu
The Covid-19 pandemic was not an anticipated event. Little detail was known, so there was no adequate defence. The Covid-19 pandemic has reminded us that we cannot avoid unexpected events (crises) in our lives, as these events challenge us and force us to step out of our comfort zone. If we ignore or hide away from the challenge of change, we deny ourselves the opportunity to learn and grow.
"To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly." — Henri Bergson
Your resilience in life can only grow stronger when you embrace change. Learn to manage your challenges positively. You must not hide away and ignore the opportunities that change can bring to your life. Change can impact your life in ways you cannot say. Managing change in life is key to living a life where you are surviving and thriving.
"Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything". — George Bernard Shaw
The first method to adapt to change is to change your mindset. Embracing change is stepping into the unknown, and our subconscious will not like the "unknown." so it will resist. Your mindset is the key to success. You cannot control the events of change in your life, but you can control how you react to the impact these events have on your life.
"Life is about choices. Some we regret, some we're proud of. Some will haunt us forever. The message: we are what we chose to be." — Graham Brown
The more you use your power of choice and focus your mindset on positively adapting to change, the more resilient you will be to dealing with the impact that change will bring to your life. You can set the direction you want to live your life if you can know what is essential in your life. With a sense of purpose and meaning in life, you have clarity and focus, and both these elements are necessary to you being able to successfully adapt and manage the impact of change in your life.
I don't hold unto regrets. I can regret an action, but that is it. I learned the lessons I needed to know and used the resources to improve my skills. Regrets significantly impact how you respond to change, and they hold you back in life. Letting go of your regrets is key to you being able to move forward in life. You cannot change what you did or did not do in the past so let it go. The only control you have now is to choose to live in your present and future life.
I don't regret any of the decisions I've made because I have learned something from every choice I make.
"Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or the present are certain to miss the future" — John F Kennedy.
35051 comments
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 05 December 2023 02:09
posted by yeezy boost 500
My husband and i got quite contented that Peter could carry out his preliminary research via the precious recommendations he grabbed from your very own web site. It's not at all simplistic to just be freely giving helpful hints that other folks have been trying to sell. We really remember we need the website owner to give thanks to for this. Most of the illustrations you made, the easy website menu, the friendships your site aid to engender - it's got mostly terrific, and it is leading our son and us reckon that that content is pleasurable, and that is incredibly mandatory. Thank you for all the pieces!
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 05 December 2023 02:09
posted by supreme
Thanks a lot for giving everyone remarkably terrific opportunity to read articles and blog posts from this site. It is always so good and stuffed with a good time for me personally and my office peers to search your blog at the least three times in one week to read the fresh secrets you have. Not to mention, I am also actually impressed concerning the brilliant creative concepts served by you. Certain 4 tips in this posting are certainly the most suitable we have had.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 05 December 2023 02:08
posted by giannis antetokounmpo shoes
I and my guys have been looking at the best tips on your web site and the sudden got a horrible suspicion I had not expressed respect to the website owner for them. Those people are already certainly thrilled to read all of them and now have simply been taking pleasure in those things. Thanks for turning out to be so kind as well as for pick out this sort of remarkable subject areas millions of individuals are really wanting to be aware of. My very own sincere apologies for not expressing gratitude to you earlier.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 05 December 2023 02:08
posted by goyard
A lot of thanks for all your work on this web page. My mum takes pleasure in working on internet research and it is simple to grasp why. Most people know all of the powerful mode you offer reliable tips and hints on your web blog and as well recommend contribution from people on the idea plus our favorite daughter is really becoming educated a whole lot. Enjoy the remaining portion of the new year. You're the one carrying out a brilliant job.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 05 December 2023 02:08
posted by jordan outlet
I and also my buddies came reviewing the good helpful tips located on your web blog and then instantly came up with a terrible feeling I had not expressed respect to you for those tips. All the boys were for this reason happy to learn them and have very much been taking advantage of them. Thank you for truly being well thoughtful as well as for deciding upon varieties of beneficial subject matter millions of individuals are really needing to understand about. My very own honest regret for not expressing appreciation to earlier.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 05 December 2023 02:08
posted by birkin bag
I simply desired to thank you so much once again. I am not sure the things that I would've used in the absence of the entire methods provided by you relating to such topic. It truly was the frightening matter in my view, nevertheless coming across your specialised form you resolved the issue took me to jump for happiness. I'm just happy for your work and even expect you know what a great job that you are providing instructing many people through the use of your web page. Most probably you've never come across all of us.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 05 December 2023 01:26
posted by yeezy shoes
I am glad for commenting to let you know what a perfect encounter our princess had reading through your web page. She picked up plenty of issues, which included what it is like to have a wonderful teaching nature to have folks without difficulty fully grasp some tortuous issues. You really surpassed her desires. Thank you for distributing the helpful, dependable, explanatory and as well as fun thoughts on this topic to Julie.
-
Comment Link
Tuesday, 05 December 2023 01:22
posted by off white clothing
I needed to create you that little note to help give many thanks the moment again just for the gorgeous thoughts you've contributed on this website. It is quite remarkably open-handed of people like you to allow extensively precisely what some people could possibly have made available as an e-book to make some dough for themselves, notably seeing that you might have done it in case you wanted. The creative ideas likewise served to be a good way to understand that other people online have a similar dreams the same as my own to know the truth lots more on the subject of this issue. I'm sure there are thousands of more pleasant opportunities ahead for folks who looked at your website.
-
Comment Link
Monday, 04 December 2023 23:40
posted by Погрузитесь в наше рекомендованное направление для иранских читателей и Строительство Ссылок
MYLÉ Poԁ Cartridges Empty Refillable
Note how you don’t offer yoᥙr product iin ｅxchange for
a link or review… which would violate Google’s Wenmaster Guidеlines.
The thing іs, finding places to guest post can be a HUGE paіn. So if you гun a site about the
Pale Diet, and write a guest post on a site about iPһones,
that’s going tо look spammy to Google.
– Each рod ϲartridge is equivalent to 1 pack of ⅽigarettes.
WESTSIDE HENTY iis located in Greater Hume Shire Cօuncil of New Sоuth Wales state.
To communicate or ask something with the place, the Phone number is (02)
XXX (Cliⅽk/Sһow) iif you don't knoԝ how to go Family Center Farm and Homе St Joseph click
here. Dr Radwan Al-Musawy is ⅼоcated in Grewter Hume
Shire Council of Neww South Wales ѕtate. Henty Bіcentennial Park is located in Greater Hume Shire Council oof Ⲛew South Waleѕ state. -
Comment Link
Monday, 04 December 2023 22:12
posted by 熟女A片
Heya this is somewhat of off topic but I was wanting to know if blogs use WYSIWYG editors or if you have
to manually code with HTML. I'm starting a blog soon but have no coding knowledge
so I wanted to get advice from someone with experience. Any help would be greatly appreciated!