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Finding Balance.

Author: Jefferson O Imgbi

Date: Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Key Bible Verse: "A false balance is abomination to the Lord: but a just weight is his delight."  
—  Proverbs 11:1 

The Series Subtitle: Finding Balance. Part 4 

Affirmation: "I choose balance. My life is aligned, my priorities are clear, and my decisions reflect peace, purpose, and strength."

The Sure Word for Today

Day 4: Boundaries that Protect Balance; Saying No Without Guilt

You cannot live in balance without setting boundaries. Proverbs 4:23 says, "Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life." Protecting your time, energy, peace, and priorities is not selfish; it is necessary. Boundaries are the filters that keep what builds you in and what breaks you out. Without them, your life becomes reactive rather than intentional.

People will always have demands. Opportunities will always come. But not everything that calls you deserves your attention. Jesus said "yes" to purpose and "no" to pressure. He walked away from crowds, delayed responses, and even left towns unvisited. Why? Because He was led, not driven. His boundaries preserved his balance and kept him aligned with his mission.

Today, examine your boundaries. Where are you saying "yes" out of guilt instead of conviction? Where are you overextending yourself to maintain peace while losing your sense of it? Permit yourself to say "no" when necessary. Every "no" to distraction is a "yes" to purpose.

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Connect

Think of a time when saying "yes" stretched you too far physically, emotionally, or spiritually. That decision likely led to resentment, burnout, or regret. Now think of when you said "no" and kept your peace. That clarity is the fruit of healthy boundaries. It is time to honour that wisdom.

Extend

Scripture shows that boundaries are godly. God set boundaries at creation: light from dark, sea from land, day from night. Jesus set boundaries around His time and movement. Paul knew when to leave one town and enter another. Let your boundaries reflect your values and your assignment.

Reflection And Application

Write down one boundary you need to create or reinforce, whether with your time, relationships, work, or rest. Practice it today without guilt. Balance is not about doing more. It is about protecting what matters.

Inspirational Quote by Jefferson O Imgbi

"Every time you say 'no' to what drains you, you say 'yes' to what strengthens you. Boundaries are the gatekeepers of balance."

Inspirational Quote Video and Audio

Let Us Pray

May God bless your heart with the courage to set clear boundaries. May He silence guilt, clarify your priorities, and help you protect your peace. Let your 'no' be firm, your 'yes' be purposeful, and your life reflects discipline rooted in truth. In Jesus' name, Amen.

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Mental Health Conditions          Inspirational Quotes by Jefferson      Mental Illness and Recovery

A Final Thought with Jefferson   The Sure Word Audio and Video Blog Post    Living with Purpose
 
Overcoming Adversity                Faith and Despair               Inspiration for Uncertain Times

Words of Encouragement          The Bible Verse of the Day    Spiritual Motivation

Covid-19 & Coronavirus            Strength and Bravery          Conflicts And Resolution

Personal and Spiritual Growth    Time Management               The Sure Word Capsule
                 
Marriage and Relationship